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Hi! I'm Petra Boynton.
I'm a sex researcher with over 10 years experience. My PhD is on porn (truly!), assessing the effects of sex in the media. I train health professionals to talk about sex, and advise a number of organisations like the Family Planning Association, and BBC World Service on sex coverage. I've a regular telephone sex phone in on the BBC, and write several columns on sex and relationships. |
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| Im only sixteen, but ive had sex twice, with two different guys. Both times i got aroused but i never climaxed, is there something wrong with me? |
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| No, there’s nothing wrong with you. I suspect if you had sex that involved penetration but not much clitoral stimulation then that’s the reason you didn’t climax. We girls are lucky as we have a sexual organ (the clitoris) that’s only there for our pleasure. Unfortunately we’re often not told that it’s there for us to use and enjoy – specially during sex. So while you’re enjoying kissing, touching, stroking, talking dirty and exploring each other’s bodies ensure you get lots of clitoral stimulation. Either you or your partner can stroke or run your clitoris before you have penetrative sex and during. That should help you enjoy sex more. You can also help things by masturbating so you learn how to climax and can show this to a partner (trust me, he won’t mind watching). If you’re not sure where your clitoris is it’s the little bump at the top of your vaginal lips that feels nice when you rub or touch it. |
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