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Hi! I'm Petra Boynton.
I'm a sex researcher with over 10 years experience. My PhD is on porn (truly!), assessing the effects of sex in the media. I train health professionals to talk about sex, and advise a number of organisations like the Family Planning Association, and BBC World Service on sex coverage. I've a regular telephone sex phone in on the BBC, and write several columns on sex and relationships. |
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| ive had sex before and i know i made a mistake by doing it. i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now and i think i am ready to have sex with him i trust him and we have both spoke about contraption and stuff,but the problem is when i had sex the first time i didnt bleed after. It would be embarrassing to bleed in front of my boyfriend. is that normal??
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| Sometimes girls bleed after sex, but many do not – particularly if they were aroused and enjoyed the experience. I think if you are feeling things still could be embarrassing perhaps it’s still not quite time for sex. Before you consider a sexual relationship I would discuss with him any fears you have – including that you might bleed and want reassurance from him if that happens. Tell him if it happens what you’d like him to do. It’s also worth noting that until you reach 16 you’re still legally under the age of consent so it might be a good idea to sort out contraception and also explore things that turn you both on before embarking on a sexual relationship. For example, snogging, cuddles, mutual masturbation, talking about what excites you. That way, when you come to have penetrative sex it should feel great and you should also feel closer. |
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