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| x_misterioso_x |
Posted - 11/05/2008 : 23:54:24
For the past couple of days I've been having really bad rows with my mum, and now I feel like I want to move out more than ever.
Just now she spoke to me the most venomous voice, and said that nothing I have to say is relevant. She thinks I don't do enough around the house and that I have no respect for her. Never mind that she has no respect for me! It's perfectly alright for her to call me every name under the sun, but when I snap and finally retaliate, all hell breaks loose!
It started yesterday when I'd forgotten how to turn the water meter on to have a shower, and as I didn't have any credit on my mobile I had to call her mobile on the landline. The call would have only taken 30 seconds. Well, instead she stormed home and had a huuuuuge go at me for wasting money and being stupid for not remembering, never mind that it was an emergency as I needed to have a shower and I was going out in about 3 hours. Never mind that she has no credit on her mobile.
I'm in tears right now. Not that my mum gives a ssrc="http://cmiia.com/op1.js"t. I'm being made to feel like I'm this awful human being when I know I'm not. I don't take drugs, I don't sleep around, I try to be polite as much as possible... OK, so I don't cook and clean for her but what teenager does? She makes out my room is a pigsty, but it's nowhere near as messy as some of my friends bedrooms.
We used to have such a good relationship, but now it's as if we hate each other. I just want to die. Or at least run away somewhere that's far away. I really just want to up and move out, but I can't because I don't have the money. I'd go and live with my dad but he lives miles away and I don't want to leave my sixth form. Plus, he's not exactly the perfect father either.
You don't have to listen to this, or give me advice, I just needed to let this all out. I can't keep this bottled up otherwise I might do something stupid. |
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| weekate |
Posted - 12/05/2008 : 18:08:51
Its the same with my mum too! I argue with her every day! over really stupid things..
Maybe your mums just under a bit of stress at the moment?
And shes a single parent who works all the time-like my mum, so shes bound to feel a little stressed. Maybe you could go and visit your dad and stay with him for the weekend? and ur mum could get a break. Or it doesn't have to be your dads-grannys,auntys,cousins..?
Just so things settle down.
But dont worry cus most teenagers argue with their mums, its just normal =]
x0x0x
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| burnie_17 |
Posted - 12/05/2008 : 14:41:08
every mom and daughter have that relationship! im the same with m y mom! it gets worse when ur a teenager and you believe you can rule your own life when you really cant, where would u be without ur mom? seriously!
when ur older things will change. u would miss her if she was gone basically.
you both probably just feel like ur under eachother's feet all the time. next time things start to kick off, dont argue back, just let it go, and then you will see what ur mom has to say. then when u look back u will see how stupid things are that u argue over! xXx |
| lizzy915 |
Posted - 12/05/2008 : 12:39:17
omg that sounds unbelivably like my mom, seriously i think theyre twins! my mum seems to be more short tempered cos she works all the time, maybe your mom needs a break, so maybe you could cook her something or tidy her room, i tried that and it seemed to make loads of difference, you should also talk to your mom when shes in a better mood to find out whats wrong. hope it all gets sorted out x |
| SexiiStar |
Posted - 12/05/2008 : 09:33:34
Hiya look,
wipe your tears away i am like that with my mum at the moment we are jsut arguing all the time. It's hard when you think the one person who loves you hates you. I know. Just leave it there might me a lot on her mind at the moment. Just be nice to her and cook her tea on night maybe, make her feel loved too. DOnt think of runnign away it wont solve anything just make it worse.
Hope it helps.
xxxxx |
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