| I think you need to consider what you want from him. Are you enjoying your relationship? Is he good to you? Are you feeling happy and secure? If you’re not really enjoying the situation – particularly if he’s using his ex to make you feel bad then you should tell him this is not acceptable and if he doesn’t change be prepared to end things.
If he is treating you well and is on good terms with his ex then it’s not unreasonable for him to have some contact with her if she has lost her baby as she will need some support. However, if she continues to come between you or he plays you off against each other you may want to reconsider whether to stay with him.
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